Ethereum FUD

I'm just wondering - and I ask this with total sincerity - why is Ethereum considered a shit project now by so many? I keep seeing it shredded in this sub and elsewhere. People mention that other chains are far superior - like AVAX and KASPA. Are they really and why? Did they solve certain problems that ETH is still figuring out? Wouldn't AVAX fees be just as high if they had a similar level of activity?

I dont know enough on a granular level but was considering adding to my ETH position. I probably still will but the cadence of negativity makes me think I missed something. Thank you in advance for any insight.